Good etiquette in the brave new digital world isn't rocket science. It all comes down to common sense , consideration and communications, etiquette expert Daniel Post Senning told BusinessNewsDaily.
"Ninety-nine percent of rude behavior can be avoided by thinking before you act," Senning said. "The fundamental principles of etiquette are honesty, respect and consideration."
He should know — etiquette runs in his family. Senning is the great-great grandson of Emily Post, the doyenne of all that mattered in manners in the first half of the 20th century. He manages Web development and online content at The Emily Post Institute in Vermont, including the company's Facebook and Twitter accounts.
There's also what Senning's family refers to as the "technological brick wall" that keeps people apart. Cellphone and smartphone users need to get past their devices and keep in mind that there are other people in the equation.
"Sometimes all the bells and whistles become the focus," he said. "Getting it to work can trump your consideration of the people around you."
The fault, he suggests, is not inherent in the device, it's in how its owner uses it.
"It's just a phone," he said. "It's not rude. And it's not polite."
Though the user must shoulder the lion's share of responsibility for using new technology, Senning said, a company that requires the use of these devices must also step up and provide some guidelines on what's acceptable and what's not.
The good news, Senning said, is that rude cellphone behavior has shaken out around respect for the people around us.
The next challenge for digital etiquette, Senning predicts, will be video phone calls.
"The video phone call is a fascinating phenomenon," he said.
Although many of the issues raised by video phone calls center on the visual elements, such as personal appearance and the calling environment, the real challenge will come from the way people react to the restoration of social clues to our communications, Senning said. That has been the missing link in two-dimension digital communications.
He believes it will add dimension and civility to our communications. Those are two parts of the bedrock foundation for etiquette. But it may be tough going at first.
"In the long run, it's going to get better," he said. "In the short run, there are going to be some hiccups. Whenever there is an either/or question, the answer is both."
Photo credit on Daniel Senning's photo: Sabin Gratza
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